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Top sexual fantasies

Last updated on November 16th, 2023 at 03:39 pm

We review the essential categories of sexual fantasies, a source of inspiration for couples, men or women. Sexual fantasies: male fantasies, female fantasies, erotic lingerie, fetishes, sex toys, role play, sex in public places, and BDSM.

Top Sexual Fantasies. Is it normal to have sexual fantasies?

Yes, it's normal, and we're not saying it, but specialists who have analyzed the human psyche are saying it.
There is no human being who has not had or does not have sexual fantasies, yet in the 21st century, it is still a taboo subject for many people. Social, cultural, and religious barriers prevent us from talking openly about it and even make us feel guilty about something ordinary.

What are the most common erotic fantasies?

Erotic fantasies can be of many types, but if we wanted to group them into categories, we would get seven main categories:

  1.  Group sex - sex with two or more partners/partners
  2. Sex in public places - in an elevator, train, plane, beach, etc.
  3. Forbidden sex - swimming, polygamy, extramarital relationships
  4. Passionate and romantic sex - all those fantasies involving pheromone candles or massage oils
  5. Voyeurism - the pleasure of being watched or looked at
  6. Erotic role-playing
  7. BDSM (fetish, bondage, sadomasochism)

Many of these fantasies remain at the fiction stage and will never come true, which is fine if you want to keep it at that stage, but if you're going to make it a reality, I encourage you to share them with your partner.
Do it somehow and find the right time, and don't share all the information at the first conversation, do it gradually. Your partner may not be emotionally ready/prepared for this.
If group sex, forbidden sex, or voyeurism are sexual fantasies that are hard to explain to your partner for understandable reasons, sexual fantasies like sex in public places, romantic sex, erotic role-play, or soft BDSM shouldn't scare anyone.

Top Sexual Fantasies. Sex in public places

A prevalent sexual fantasy is sex in public places because the possibility of being discovered/discovered in a compromising position is fascinating and arousing at the same time. The fear of being caught triggers sexual arousal. A big drawback is that this practice is illegal.

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A very affordable solution to satisfy this fantasy is to use sex-tech products such as vibrating eggs, which can be controlled remotely by mobile phone or WATCH ME technology.
WATCH ME is a discreet silicone bracelet available in four different colors that allows you to control and change the type and intensity of vibrations. In our online store Dayra.eu, we have several sex toys compatible with this smartwatch. Search brands MYTHOLOGY, MR BOSS, ANBIGUO, WEARWATCH, ANNE'S DESIRE, TREASURE, or CYBER STRAP, and find your favorite sex toy. Brands such as Satisfyer, Lelo, Lovesense, or Wear watch have developed several models of sex-tech vibrating eggs, with which you can add diversity and variety to your sex life.
You can use these little sex gadgets on the street, in a restaurant, or any other public place without anyone noticing, just you and your patron.

Top Sexual Fantasies. Romantic Sex

Romantic sex with candles, bath salts, massage oils, and intimate lubricants, full of details that make you think of a romantic movie script, favors female orgasm. In an online sex shop, you can easily buy different brands and different types of lubricants, tantric massage oils, or erotic candles with other ingredients and flavors to choose.

Top Sexual Fantasies. Erotic role plays

This top sexual fantasie is perhaps the most widespread, with many scenarios and possibilities, but the most common are erotic role-playing doctor/patient, teacher/student, or cop/detainee.

Top Sexual Fantasies. BDSM Games

Suppose your top sexual fantasies involve BDSM practices. I recommend watching the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy together. I'm sure after watching this film, it will be much easier to say you want to introduce BDSM elements into your sexual routine.
Use BDSM accessories gradually; start with soft ones like handcuffs and ropes, or gradually increase the intensity if desired.
When using BDSM accessories, you should know that the most important thing is the safety of the participants, so the quality of the accessories you use is essential. Choose sex toys with your partner and shop only in authorized online stores, don't buy these accessories from small advertisements.
Choose well-known brands such as BEGME, FETISH SUBMISSIVE ORIGIN, COQUETTE FANTASY experienced BDSM brands that carefully choose the materials from which they manufacture small works of art.

The erotic items that come out of their factories have many well-thought-out details. When used, the perceived quality, whether we are talking about beginners in BDSM or advanced, puts these items at the level of expensive luxury items.

If you're kinky, you're not freaky, which is fantastic.

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About Steve Varadar

I am Steve, a sexual wellness blogger on a mission to empower individuals to take control of their sexual health and pleasure through education the use of sex toys and accessories. With eleven years of experience in the industry, I am dedicated to providing accurate and informative content, as well as product reviews and recommendations to enhance intimacy and improve sexual experiences.

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